Hello, my name is Valentina. After almost 11 years of marriage, people that meet my husband and I for the first time still think that we’re newly-weds. Somehow it’s obvious to all who meet us that we have a strong and happy marriage. Many want to know what our secret is. And that’s what the tools and counseling are all about.
After years of observing and counselling pre-wed and married couples, I’ve come to see 10 major areas where many couples keep tripping up. I’m fed up of marriages breaking up when these secrets are available to be tapped into. Many couples can’t seem to identify the source of their problems which means they can’t apply an effective solution to them.
Because of the spiralling rate of divorce, people have become afraid to get married. Or, they’re afraid that even if they do get married, it won’t last. But marriage itself isn’t the problem, if you could make the right adjustments in your perceptions and thinking habits you can put yourself on the other side of those statistics.
This is not a compilation of psychological theories and dynamics, but practical principles and advice that have worked for my marriage, the marriage of others that I’ve helped, and are sure to work in your marriage if you begin to apply them.
I’m fed up of seeing couples unhappy in marriage and ready to throw in the towel simply because they don’t know WHY things are going wrong and WHAT they can do about it.
Valentina Ibeachum
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